People do not have to be toxic to everyone to be toxic to you
Your experiences are not validated or erased depending on how your abuser treats other people
“nice” people can still be abusive
In fact, many of them are only abusive to ONE person, which makes it easier because they’re “a great person” to everyone else and no one believes the one victim.
why does nobody ever talk about the media’s fetishization of lesbianism like why do people only get mad when gay dudes get fetishized